One Billion Rising Gurgaon: Burying Misogyny and celebrating equality
It’s not always necessary to be morose, upset and angry to make a point. And we most certainly were not! Far from it, we danced and sang, chanted and laughed as we walked down Gurgaon’s mall stretch as part of the One Billion Rising campaign for gender equality and recognition of women’s rights.
Gurgaon’s citizens groups have, over the last couple pf years, matured into a curious amalgamation of interest groups, those who work for a cause and RWAs, ably aided by Facebook. Last evening’s event was called by Let’s Walk Gurgaon and joined by other groups, notably Gurgaon Moms. Unlike OBR in New Delhi, we did not see huge crowds and college students were conspicuous by their absence. Yes, the innovative format of the protest made a mark for those who attended.
Fashioned somewhat like a Mardi Gras parade, we carried a coffin with the intent to bury Misogyny, all dressed up in a celebratory mood replete with bandwalas, slogan shouting, drums and all the rest of it. We walked from Sahara Mall to DT City Centre on MG Road, crossed over to MGF Metropolitan and walked back to Sahara Mall. At DT City Centre, some volunteers staged a street play and back at Sahara, others did a really fun flash mob thing. Then we proceeded to bury Misogygy and give birth to a world of equal rights and respect.
We had tagging along with us the police constables, men and women, who were assigned to be with us on duty. They hadn’t a clue why we were doing this! Many onlookers watched curiously and seemed to be having fun as well. Nupur and me kept wondering what was passing through their minds. We almost decided to do an impromptu survey, but stopped short!
What I really loved about the entire event is the way it gathered momentum as it was planned. People, both men and women, volunteered their time and creativity and worked together to make it happen. It takes a lot to move out of the comfort of your routine and be out there, doing things, saying things, starting a chain of change. And having fun while doing it! To sum up, the message of the street play underlined the need to start the change with ourselves. That’s a great thought to take forward as we continue to advocate for a real change in social attitudes towards gender. Join us, the more the merrier!
Here are some pics that capture the event, all photo credits to Swatantra Chhabra Kalra who is a friend and fellow blogger. She blogs at http://swatantra-independence.blogspot.com/
For the videos of the event, please go to- http://www.youtube.com/user/f20films
Posted on February 15, 2013, in Personal and tagged community, equality, feminism, gender, Gurgaon, Gurgaon Moms, Let's Walk Gurgaon, misogyny, OBR, One Billion Rising, pariarchy, protests, Valentine's Day, violence. Bookmark the permalink. 11 Comments.
Beautifully written, you gave a thousand words to my pictures. Glad to share it with you and thanks so much for your heartiest acceptance. Your best shot is my best shot also:) same same:)
Glad you liked it and hope you get more traffic to your blog through the post
If Misogyny isnt acceptable, so is Misandry.
I proudly say I follow Philogyny and men shouldnt hate women and women too shouldnt hate men because ultimately both grow our society and the feeling of humbleness and respect towards each other will manifest a peaceful planet of ours
Totally! Very logical.
Well done and well said.
You should’ve come along!
Read about this in the newspapers and heard about it in detail from a friend who attended it. The same friend who is there in a still from the play. It is a small world indeed !
Yes it is! wow!
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